Last year, a special team of Holt ambassadors – including two Holt staff and six volunteers – traveled to the Philippines to meet 11 older children still waiting for a loving family to adopt them. During a week full of fun activities, the ambassadors got to know the children – their likes and dislikes, their challenges and strengths and what makes them special. Upon returning home to the U.S., the ambassadors shared what they had learned about these children with members of their church and community – hoping to inspire families to adopt.
So exciting that we have decided to send another group of ambassadors to the Philippines to meet another extraordinary group of children. On October 14th, two adoptive parents, two adult adoptees and three Holt staff members will kick off the second Philippines Ambassador trip. They will spend a week doing group activities, going on fun outings and generally getting to know the 15 boys and girls, ages 10-15, in this year’s group.
Interested in learning more about the ambassador program and the participating children? The ambassadors will blog during the trip on a password-protected site. Stay tuned for information on how to access this site!
UPDATE: As of June 2012, Julie has a family!! Three cheers for Julie!
Julie* is this week’s featured waiting child. She has less than 9 months to find a family. Eligible and interested families should immediately contact Erin Mower at email@example.com.
Date of Birth: November 15, 1998
Two years ago, in November of 2010, we posted Julie’s story in the hopes of finding her a family. After several of us met her in China the previous summer, we came home determined to find this 11-year-old girl the family she so deserved – and desperately wanted. Unfortunately, we were unsuccessful.
Julie is now 13, and has less than 9 months to find a family before she becomes ineligible for international adoption.
Thirteen years ago, Julie’s birth parents wrapped their newborn daughter in red cloth and left her at a crossroads in a major southern city. Here, she was found by local police and taken to one of China’s sprawling social welfare centers for orphaned and abandoned children. In the years since, Julie has grown into a clever, independent girl with a warm, loving heart.
Since we last wrote about her two years ago, Julie has come into her own in many ways. After following up with the orphanage, our staff in China received an update on Julie. She likes to sing and dance, and is currently learning Latin dance, they write. She loves dolls and handicrafts and she is good at expressing her ideas. She is also diligent and methodical in nature, and seeks to help others in need. She wants to be a kindergarten teacher when she grows up so that she can help take care of other children.
Over the years, Julie has watched many children leave the orphanage to join loving families of their own – always wondering when it will be her turn. She desperately wants a family, her caregivers write, and often gets emotional and jealous when other children are adopted. Julie says she would love to join a family with grandparents, siblings as well as cats.
She has waited 13 years. This is literally her last chance to join a family of her own. To help interested families who may not have the resources, we have reduced fees and placed a Special Blessings SNAF grant of $5,000 toward Julie’s adoption.
To meet the deadline to adopt Julie by her 14th birthday, families will need to complete and submit their dossier to China by May 15th. Because her case is so urgent, China may however show some flexibility in eligibility requirements. See country criteria for complete eligibility requirements.
Welcome to our first post in the “Children Who Give” blog series! In the coming weeks and periodically throughout the year, we will feature stories about children who raise funds for Holt, and parents, grandparents and others who raise funds on behalf of the children in their lives. As Mary Li Creasy illustrates so well in the following story about her son, Hunter, children are a gift — a gift that often inspires us to give back. In this story, it is Hunter who was inspired to give back. His love and appreciation for his family inspired him to write an award-winning essay about Holt, to which he then donated his winnings so that we can help more children have families of their own. Thank you Hunter, and thank you Mary Li for sharing this beautiful story!
One year to the day we adopted our daughter, Lily – from China through Holt – we got the call about a 4-year-old boy named “Hung” in Vietnam. Holt thought he would be a good match for our family. We had applied to the special needs program only a few months earlier, knowing we wanted to adopt an older child and also that we did not want to wait the 13 months it took to bring our daughter home from China between 2005 and 2006. We had gone to committee once before, but Holt’s social workers decided another family was a better fit for that child. After that, we felt greatly discouraged and weren’t sure we would ever be matched.
We were shocked to receive the call only a month later about Hung.
With a 10-year-old and 2-and-a-half-year-old at home, 4 seemed on the lowest end of the age spectrum we would consider. And we knew nothing about the Vietnam program. After praying about it and talking it over as a family for a few days, we requested the file.
One look at Hung’s beautiful brown eyes and we were in love.
In September of 2008, fifteen months after we accepted Hung’s referral, the U.S. and Vietnam decided not to renew their Memo of Understanding regarding adoptions and subsequently suspended all international adoption from Vietnam. We managed to endure the next seven months with the help of weekly telephone calls with Holt staff, hundreds of supportive e-mails, and several visits with our online Holt Vietnam friends and Dong Nai waiting parents group. After our case was finally resolved, we traveled to Bien Hoa, Vietnam, where on April 13, 2009, we met and adopted our son Hung, who we named John “Hunter.”
Recently, we at Holt celebrated the 14th birthday of Lucas Kolb — a boy adopted from China in just the knick of time! When he turned 14, he would no longer be eligible for adoption. Although they already had four adopted sons at home, Ed and Sandy Kolb of Nebraska found they still had more love to give. With the deadline looming, the Kolbs opened their hearts to not just one, but two older boys. Lucas, and Christian, age 11.
“Adopting children is what I’ve been prepared to do my whole life,” Sandy Kolb recently told a reporter at the Omaha World-Herald. “You’re not going to stop at just one. Your life positively changes after you adopt and the child’s does too.”
A boy recently adopted by a Nebraska family turns 14, the cut-off age for adoption from China.
by Robin Munro, Senior Writer
I have such exciting news to share! On February 1st, Yu Qing* – the boy featured in the summer 2010 Holt magazine – celebrated his 14th birthday with his adoptive parents, Ed and Sandy Kolb, and five new brothers, also adopted.
On the Kolb family blog, Sandy explains the significance of this particular birthday for Yu Qing (who now goes by Lucas):
February First marked another celebration day…Lucas’ 14th birthday! In his honor, God proclaimed a “Snow Day” in Omaha and so, school was cancelled…(so we told him!) We spent the better part of the day in PJ’s, watching movies, eating, playing games and eating some more! It was especially sweet to celebrate this birthday with Lucas since at age 14 in China he would have aged out of being eligible for international adoption! He became our son, by God’s grace, in the nick of time!!
In some ways we are still getting to know each other, in other ways it is as if Lucas has always been a part of our family.
It’s always exciting when a child finds a family. But actually having met and personally advocated for the child makes it that much more meaningful. When I met Lucas this past summer at the Journey of Hope camp in southern China, I was struck by what a polite, thoughtful and intelligent boy he was. A shy 13-year-old, he avoided eye contact and kept his hands neatly folded in his lap – likely to hide the fact he’s missing fingers. He told us he hoped to one day become a doctor, a feat nearly impossible for a boy with a physical abnormality and no family name – both traits considered “unlucky” in this traditionally Confucian culture. As an orphan in China, his educational opportunities would be limited. When he reached adulthood, finding employment – especially as a doctor – would be even more challenging. With our friendly gestures drawing only the slightest of smiles, Lucas seemed painfully aware of these social stigmas, and the obstacles they would create for him.
Here today, as we interviewed children to advocate for their adoption, Lucas seemed not so much excited, but actually burdened by the gravity of the opportunity before him – the opportunity to join a family, as well as a society that doesn’t discriminate based on your family name or disabilities. At 13, he had only six months to find a family before aging out.
But then something extraordinary happened. The Kolbs opened their hearts to Lucas. He was home by Christmas Eve.
In looking at the photos of Lucas on the Kolbs’ private family blog, it’s heartening to see such genuinely happy, confident smiles on his face. Within the first week with his new family, he grows visibly more at ease – and, once informed that his new family will not judge him for missing fingers, he becomes less self-conscious about his hand. He seems so happy. And relieved. His 13-year wait for a permanent family is over.
No longer a looming deadline, turning 14 is now cause for celebration!
Lucas’ story is a triumphant one. But so many children – especially older children and children with special needs – continue to wait for permanent, loving families. Like Lucas, many of them are on the verge of turning 14 and becoming ineligible for adoption. All children deserve a loving family – as well as every opportunity to work hard and achieve their dreams!