If you or someone you know has been considering adoption from
the Philippines, you may have heard some common misconceptions about the
adoption process. Below, we highlight the top 10 myths about adopting a child from
the Philippines, and provide some useful insight as you consider this program!
Myth #1: There isn’t
much information available about children waiting to be adopted from the
Fact: Holt receives very detailed family background,
behavioral, developmental and social information about children waiting to be
adopted from the Philippines.
A few years ago, Mary Luz thought she might have to make the heartbreaking decision to leave her children in someone else’s care. But then she discovered a Holt donor-supported program in her community. And now, in every moment, she’s there.
At home, in a special place, Mary Luz keeps a collection of
cards. Each card has a message inside, written in crayon or colored pen.
“Mama, I want to tell you that you’re the best, and in every
moment and place, you’re there,” reads one message written by her daughter,
Camilla. “You’re my right hand. You’re my light. You’re my joy, my sadness, my
company, my everything. With Love, Camilla.”
Inside another hand-cut in the shape of a heart, the message reads, “On this day, I want to tell you that I love you. And I love you with a lot of love.” This card came from both her children, 5-year-old David and 9-year-old Camilla.
Today, Ellia is thriving in her mom’s care. In just two years, Ellia
has grown from a shy and quiet 2-year-old to an energetic, outgoing, silly
4-year-old who is secure and so loved. Liz says adopting as a single parent is
“the hardest thing she has ever done on purpose,” but also the greatest gift.
Liz encourages all hopeful parents — whether married or single — to consider adoption.
When her husband became ill, Dinknesh suddenly had to provide for her family on her own. She didn’t know where to begin, and her family quickly fell into poverty. Then sponsors and donors came together to empower Dinknesh, giving her two of the most powerful Gifts of Hope — confidence, and a cow.
Like many women in rural Ethiopia, Dinknesh had a more traditional role in her family before her husband fell sick. She worked incredibly hard to maintain her home and care for her two sons while her husband, a farmer, worked the fields to bring in an income and meet the basic needs of their family.
But when he became ill, he could not work and was bedridden for months.
Suddenly, Dinknesh had to provide for her children on her own.
Every year on June 1, the International Day of the Child, children in Holt’s programs receive a birthday celebration to remember.
More often than not, these children don’t get to celebrate their special day. For families living in poverty, a birthday party for their child is often a luxury they can’t afford. And limited resources make it difficult to give children living in orphanage care the extra special attention they deserve on their birthday.
But Holt sponsors and donors want to make every child’s birthday special and memorable — even if it’s not on their actual birthday.
This year, through the generosity and kindness of sponsors and donors, boys and girls in Holt’s programs around the world will receive birthday gifts, a special meal and a fun-filled day with their community! These celebrations bring such joy to kids who are growing up in poverty with their families, or have no family to celebrate them — giving them the special birthday celebration they deserve.
Trapped in debt
because of money lenders, Sheela thought she would have to close her food cart
— dismantling her dream and the business that supported her two sons. That is,
until someone gave her a Gift of Hope…
In a vacant lot on a busy street corner in Bengaluru, India
— in the midst of overwhelming traffic, blaring car horns and blistering midday
sun — Sheela smiles. Standing underneath a bright blue tarp, surrounded by pots
and pans and a stack of dirty plates, she is living her dream.
We have a few long-standing adoption programs in that region, but two that stand out are our Philippines and Vietnam programs. Although smaller, they both have unique factors that might make them a good option for your family!