Kerin, the band thing is a hoot!!!
Sheri, for something nice to do, here's an idea...
My mom just turned 60 last month. We had postcards made (free at VistaPrint) that announced her birthday, etc. We sent it to all our family and friends and asked that they send her a card to wish her a happy 60th... our goal being to have at least 60 cards in her mailbox to open on her birthday.
Now maybe a man wouldn't enjoy it as much but my mom LOVED this. People sent funny cards, serious cards, sentimental cards... lots of people wrote lots of nice things, and people she hasn't seen in years, like old neighbors, etc, even sent well wishes. My mom is STILL looking at the cards almost 2 months later!